Oh, and as a side note. Once you have this^ system setup, I invite you to try this out:

Explicitly explain to your plate the concept of AF/BB. Maybe not necessarily using these terms but openly talk about it the idea of the "provider beta man or nice guy" and the "fun confident alpha." From my experience thus far, 100% of the time, they openly confirm all of this. 100% of the time. Not 75%. Not 90%. 100%.

And just to be clear, I'm not talking about crazy, daddy issues, desperate girls.

I'm talking about attractive, high value, sophisticated, raised well by their non divorced parents, kinda girl.

When you bring this concept to light, something interesting happens. They consciously become aware that they've been doing this their whole life.

Now, they don't do it to be "mean" to boys. Or "use" them. As a matter of fact, they don't really DO (actively take action) something to get everything they get from a BB/orbiter. They simply ALLOW this behavior to happen.

Imagine if you had girls constantly trying to buy you things, clean your house, your dishes, buying you food, why in the world would you go out of your way to get them to stop? If you already told her that you just want her as a friend (and nothing more), you did your part. If she continues orbiting you and expecting something in return, that falls on her.

So this is what my plates do. They ALLOW their orbiters to do stuff for them. Despite my plates not reciprocating anything, the orbiters continue to cater to their needs.

I know to some, these concepts might seem a bit extreme but again, I invite you to try them out for yourself and watch the magic unfold.

Don't knock it til you try it.