That is a great way to word it! This one loves to be by me or sleep next to me but don’t “snuggle” him. He likes to be held but I don’t dare cradle him, he likes to held over the shoulder haha! He literally gave me a black eye once and a scar because he used his murder paws to slap me and that was the last time I ever held him that way. This video was the 4th time he got me. The 5th is on video also except it’s not a front view because of the way the outside cameras where facing. It bled so much it caused a black eye.

I still love him and I still forever claim him - he just had to school me on his boundaries.

They don’t care about ours and you are right!