I think that you should really reexamine your approach to lamenting being attractive to the opposite sex.

I'm not going to go through your post history and cherry pick comments for evidence pointing towards your doucheyness. You've kinda said all you need to in this one comment thread. And if this is how you speak to women in real life, I'm not surprised you've only been intimate with women that are as shallow as you appear to be.

I don't know you, but I would hazard a guess that if things are as "easy" for you as you claim them to be, you've probably only taken what has been handed to you on a silver platter. 'A ten will date a ten' as the adage goes. The thing is, there are many women that a '10' appearance wise, but that may lack humbleness, empathy, caring, intelligence or understanding. A woman or man, that has all or most of those traits is truly attractive. So while you may consider yourself attractive, maybe even highly attractive on a good day, the fact remains that you appear to lack one or several of those other key features that women of a certain distinction find themselves attracted to and in bed with.

I would posit that if you actually did possess all of those other features you would find yourself in the company of much more interesting and even more beautiful women (if you are as good looking as you say you are) and I can guarantee your sexual life would be much more enjoyable and intimate because there is real emotional chemistry and intimacy there, which is generally speaking what women are REALLY interested in.

Beyond that I find it incredulous and ridiculous for you to attempt to relate to the female experience anywhere in the world. You are a male and that puts you first (unfortunately) in a different pay grade, in different opportunities for professional advancement, and at far less risk for sexual harassment. To start. Then there's overt sexual harassment on the Internet, in social situations, and at varying degrees physical harm and rape that women must contend with, from the moment they wake up to the time rest at night, and that's without even considering what can happen to a women if she were to become incapacitated because of inebriation, illness or injury. Then we have the double standard that women must deal with concerning body shaming, what is real and achievable vs what is fantasy and unobtainable for young girls in media, print, and tv, and then what women have to deal with when boys and young men begin to perceive porn as reality.

Shame on you. For being classless, rude and arrogant and then wondering why women that find themselves dead-eyed and dreaming of someone/somewhere else they would surely rather be.