I wasn't offended that she didn't answer, the point I was trying to make there is that when she responded to me the next morning it felt unnecessary for her to specify she was at someone elses place, it felt like she was trying to get a reaction out of me. I agree it's none of my business but I also didn't need to know about it.

I've stayed at her place a lot of times so I didn't think of it as being a big deal. I agree about the offering her money part, I know that was wrong and it was said in the middle of what was already a personal breakdown. It wasn't ok and I'm completely aware of that.

I haven't been offended by her seeing other people it's more because we've been in this weird middle ground, we would do couples things and started kissing regularly as though were were together. The fact that we weren't is where it got confusing for me.

If she wants to date other guys that's fine but I'd appreciate the honesty about it so that at times when we are together things don't get physical between us. Like the kissing or her taking her clothes off while we're sitting in her bed together. I've never forced her to do any of that.