I kicked/hit my husband, and he told his parents

Good point. We both know the relationship is toxic, sorry for the confusion, we just are on the same page regarding giving it one last shot. Right now I think it's a lose lose situation - I'm hurt and have been pretty mean because I have difficulties being vulnerable, he's vulnerable and very kind and patient and forgiving but his actions speak otherwise. One of us (preferably both of us) has to back down and make the first steps otherwise the cycle will continue. This would probably be a good question to bring up once we cool off a bit, thank you.

He did go into work early in order to get off early, so I'm not sure if that has anything to do with it but it's worth asking.

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