Some of those things fall into a category where she prob won't ever be interested (ass/anal stuff), if she's not into anal things because of aversion to the concept or the poop smell or something, that's not likely to change. Some of those things you might be able to meet her halfway on, maybe dress up if you think about how SHE likes to feel. Sexy lingerie, for instance. Or taking her out to a formal event and encouraging her to wear a very fancy gown (you in a tux) w/ sexy crotchless stockings. Taking her shopping at a high end store like Agent Provocateur. If you shift "dress up" to what SHE feels beautiful in, she might be into it. Mens fantasies like french maid or teacher might make her feel silly and uncomfortable, but what would make HER feel like a goddess?

You can also go into kinky sex that women tend to like more. Sounds like she's not into being degraded, spanked, anal (many women find that painful/degrading). What about woman types of non-vanilla sex? Tantra yoga sessions? Sensual naked massage? Search pornhub for sensual massage you'll see what I mean. Sex in exotic places? How about light blindfold for her, with almond oil massage and feather brushing? Would she be interested in having her hands tied to the bed while you lightly caress her all over with your hands? What if you suggest those kind of sensual female friendly kinks?

Your kinks are in the normal cliche bucket of men porn dirty kinky. Think flower petals and massage candles, see if you can open her up to anything new that way. That's my advice.