Because it is true. Men are not so fragile that a woman playing with themselves infront of them, is at all going to traumatise them.

Patriarchy exists for a reason. Women don't handle things like men, no woman can rape a man, no matter how drunk he is, no man can be traumatised by a woman groping him, or flashing him, or making sexual inuendo.

Yet you can be a fucking autist like Aziz Ansari and merely being an awkward, not great looking guy who sucks at hooking up with women, is a proto-sexual predator.

It isn't true that if Helen Mirren was inviting young actors up to her hotel room and propositioning them, sex for roles, no one would give a shit and no man would feel "assaulted" by it ?

Because every single man who isn't lying for feminist brownie points agrees. No one would be traumatised and feel abused if Helen Mirren started slapping her cooter infront of them after they "found themselves" in her hotel room at 1 AM.