When clearing all emotions aside, looking in to the story : sorting out: Ordering, blaming, forcing, puting himself first ( instead of his gf). I think you did see it. It will be hurtful when you tried to stay away from a narcissist. But once u did it, your life will be brighter. Idk if i may wrong. ( abt your bf), but staying safe after along day working, is your damn own right. " Everyone is upsetting, " but you are tired. No need to please everyone . I has found out that is the way to be happy. :| . This kind of people have a magnet attraction, i know, but they are bossy every single seconds . Dont waste time thinking. Hope you will be fine soon.