I'm planning on confronting her about it, but im not sure how pushy I'm going to be about it.

I don't want to pressure her into hanging out, but I also want her to understand that I'm not willing to wait around for her forever.

I've thought of her as a close friend for a long time, but her behaviour is making me question that. And I'm honestly insulted that she thinks that it's okay to make me wait potentially indefinitely just to be her friend.

I don't want to break our friendship or anything, but I want to make it clear that I can't continue to act like her close friend if she won't act like mine. I'd rather spend my time with people who respect it.

If she just doesn't want to hang out basically ever again, I'm going to try to make new friends. I can't base my schedule on the idea that we are close friends if she won't do the same.

I'm obviously not going to say that or be so blunt, but I don't want to be too gentle and make her think that I'm okay with waiting forever. I'm planning on spending the next week or two planning what to say.