My social circle game sucks compared to cold approaches.

Social circle game from my understanding is just manipulating social status to your benefit. It's like a less-targeted version of cold approach, where you are safe within the herd, and you're essentially climbing the ladder of the social hierarchy.

You take 5 hot girls, you take 5 guys. You be the coolest guy out of the 5. You now have 5 of the HOTTEST girls competing with one another to gain your attention and validation. That's the pinnacle.

You could be 6'2, a model, with a Ferrari.. Or you could appear to be the coolest, most desirable guy in a group of girls limited dating pool, and have them put you on a pedastool and compete for your validation. That's my understanding of what social circle game is anyway, maybe I should shut the fuck up and re-read the stickies.

Eh dude, I'm not sure. For most people, yes. But you're sounding like you're coming from a very sheltered upper class school where all the kids daddies meet up at the country club every couple of weeks and compare who has the most money. Hitting up all 3 is definitely a "aggressive" business tactic, and I don't want you dishonoring your family or some crazy shit. When you're surrounding yourself with the potent people, it's networking. I wouldn't want you to cut off potential partners or undoing some of your parents work by advising you to be aggressive in a situation that could negatively affect your reputation.

Obviously I'm making ridiculous generalization and being borderline offensive, but it's a possibility. I have dinner every once in a while with a friend of mine who lives in 'the estates' and he has guys over that look down their nose at me for going to like a top 5 or 3ish university in my state, so I know how that kind of thing can be.

If you were a standard public school kid, Yes. Semi-cold approach 20 girls in a day who gives a fuck.

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