The thing is, a lot of men feel this way. My husband said that the dads at his daughter's school were all standing round at a party and talking about how hot the girl from Lazytown is. Have you seen her????????????????? She's about 10?!?!!!!!!! That really really upset me to know men talk about this in the open. Also I don't have a single female friend (my friends are 95% women) who didn't have some s-xual assault experience as a child, often from family members. It's a deep societal problem that needs to be addressed. Even if men are thinking this way, the problem occurs when it gets translated into physical action, or even just outwardly talking about it. Maybe this can prompt a conversation. Porn is deeply unhealthy and encourages the normalisation of this stuff.