If you’re not good to play basketball, then become a coach, become an instructor, become a scout.

If you’re not good enough to date, visit the strip club, visit a prostitute, be super smart and invent virtual reality sex simulations with AI designed to look and feel like a real woman. Considering 1/4 men in their 20s aren’t sexually active, I wouldn’t be too surprised if a group of sexually frustrated geeks one day invent something like this.

The point is that there’s always an alternative to your dreams and desires. Just because you can’t play basketball or are unable to date doesn’t mean you can’t find something that’s similar.