Do nonmonogamous couples suffer from deadbedrooms too?

The short answer, YES! Some might have 1 assertive partner and still have sex but happens often. We have always been DB, I think wife is like you and she said that she wasnt wired for monogamy. We are super close in every way but sex and she has flat out told me I dont do it for her in bed. We were open for a while but she did get jealous of me with others so she wanted me to be exclusive to her and truthfully, I liked that she wanted it. Sounds weird I know. I like she is possessive of me. I also know Im not good in bed, knew before her so shes not telling me anything I dont know. She deserves to get her itch scratched every so often as long as shes not dismissive of me or getting into any one guy too much

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