Then why do you say that posts advocating sexual assault aren't?

Because I can tell the difference between "omg he stepped on the sidewalk that is so disrespectful to me the polymorphic sidewalkkin" and "Here is a massive network of information explaining how to put women in their place"?

I never go to these subs, so I checked up on them. TIA was lots of shitposts about not bathing and shipping and that pool rules poster where the black swimmers are "uncool". TheRedPill had a lot of "go to the gym, take care of yourself" self-help stuff, which is fine except when it gets into weird "don't be a sissy or a queer, be an alpha" stuff, a story about a man who was "hurt inside" because his wife gave blowjobs to other men before they were together, a post called "Women: born to deceive" (they "deceive those around them" by wearing makeup and push-up bras)... and that's not getting into the sidebar, which includes links like A Voice For Men (to say there's a sordid history there is an understatement) and "How To Manage Your Bitches".

Still don't see how the two are equal.