I am a man. Most of my girlfriends cheated on me. What kind of monster would I be if I resorted to violence of any kind, revenge, or anything? I was heavily criticized by my exes for trying for 2 weeks to win them back. They said that was way too clingy- For sending them flowers and asking to work it out. If I can be criticized for trying to improve myself after a breakup and not immediately snapping out of it... what would happen if I responded with anger?

This woman was a monster. As was the misogynist murderer from Canada.

This woman was violent and mentally ill before her separation.

I’ve had virtually a dead bedroom for 12 years and 6 years completely dead. If my SO chooses to feel wronged or upset it’s bullshit. She can and will but she’s lying to herself.

I spent hours in therapy and attempted couples therapy. She is manipulating me to get something she wants which is a total mystery to me.

However, my therapist says we’re “good” coparents and I need to help my kids more than average kids. There are reasons that we haven’t broken up

Look I know she’ll be pissed off but does she have a right to be?