Recipes, makeup, and sex positions are not ways to "treat" a man. Those are ways to objectify yourself for his amusement.

Actual ways to treat a man would be like:
-Take an interest in their hobbies.
-Accept them for who they are and not try to change them to who you want them to be.
-Make sure to share the chore load with them or else you might become resentful against them.
-Foster a relationship built on dialog and trust.

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"You should try THIS sex position!" or "Make sure to wear make up this way, it'll drive them crazy!" are not ways to treat someone. Sounds more like advice for a pro trying to keep a trick around...