Please help me contest this alignment for Johnny Boy

Tom shouldn't even be on this list after what happened to him. Yes, they dated, but that whole relationship was supposedly a way for her to get out of another relationship. It ruined him, almost ruined his career, and he seemed like he emotionally didn't recover for years. I really worried we lost that bright little sunshine: he almost never smiled, barely spoke to anyone, and he wasn't bubbly anymore. That whole relationship really put him through it and he was made a mockery multiple times in the entertainment industry and among her fans before and after the relationship.

Harry seems like a sweet guy. John is a sweet guy. Tom Hiddleston is super sweet. Not sure about the others but I've never heard anything bad about Taylor Lautner. Yet they're all villians. Okay, that makes sense?

Also, I love how John gets bashed for his and Taylor's age difference yet her and Tom were 9 years apart, her and Jake were 9 years apart (he was 29 and she was 20). Would also like to point out Taylor was 20 when she dated 17 year old Lautner, and she was 23 when she dated 18 year old Harry. Two of these fellows were basically minors when they dated her as an adult yet she was shocked they may not have known how to relationship and instead of putting that in as a factor she made them a villian and let her fans hurt them. But if you talk to any fan of hers, they defend her right to date older/younger men because she's independent and allowed to make her own decisions...unless it's John (and sometimes Jake).

This isn't to start a hate train. I genuinely wish her well and she seems like (based on her song Anti-hero) has done some work in trying to better herself. I just wish her fans would leave both her and her exes alone. This ^ points to the picture isn't cool.

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