Do questions on here usually splinter off into "who is really trans"? Not rhetorical, seriously asking if this is something I should keep in mind and guard myself against when entering into discussions.

The direction of the punching doesn’t matter.

Again, this is what racists say when presented with restorative justice solutions.

I've actually got a ton of nb friends and community -- my issue is with the ideology not individuals. I've also experienced harrowing transmisogyny and homeless by laying my trust in the gender politics. I identified as non-binary for years. I worked a queer and trans crisis hotline -- I've spent literal months worth of my life advocating for and supporting queer people without letting my frustrations with the twisted contemporary gender politics impact the high-level of care I provided for free and without recompense. I've participated in anti-oppression workshops and I've built irl communities that have helped scores of people overcome the most difficult periods of their lives and given them the best experiences they've ever had, by their own words.

I'm so sick of being called transphobic for advocating against the oppression of transexuals.

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