Okay so I dated this girl for 2 years in total on and off for a bit at times. The relationship should be described as intense both sexually and emotionally. After a charming few months I noticed some behaviour. I don’t know maybe I noticed it earlier but brushed it off. This girl would have very big mood swings. I suspected she was Bi polar around this time but didn't approach her as it didn't happen enough to justify asking it. Then I noticed times she would go from happy to sad but also happy to angry.. so we would have fights. Since I tend to be quite good at arguing I won like 95% of arguments. Once In a while we would have a big close to breaking up fight and she would break down in tears about something that happen. Examples would be.. Being punched in the face on the way off the bus. Someone sitting next to her on the bus and trying to put his hands down her pants. Being mugged in the park and attacked. Being groped at a bar down a visible hall way. Even on just big fights that weren't relationship threatening so would try and end it the argument she was losing with.. A co worker at work kissed her (she had worked at a restaurant that had a back area with supplies or something like that and that where she said it happened). Anyway this is all a bit of context as to who she is. One night after work I was in a great mood. It was Saturday night and I didn't work the next day so I told her to get dressed up because I wanted to take her out dancing. It was great but she had bit to much to drink and got to her angry state. She stormed out. I walked behind her as she was keeping a distance and I figured it didn't matter because she was at least in sight. It was dark and safety was a concern. So we get home and I just pass out. She later tells me while I'm at work the next day. She had went out the night before after we got back. She said she was going to a bus stop when 3 men approached her and raped her. I broke down at my job. I was sick to my stomach. I felt like I failed as a man. I wanted to throw up. But I got home and just cried with her. Anyways.. So there was not much bruising appearing in the following days. After three days she was actually getting angry at me that I wasn't having sex. I was still so broken from the news but I did it because I just couldn't say no to her. Though It was odd that three days after a sexual assault like she described (it was harsh which makes the lack of bruising suspicious). I had probably the saddest kind of sex I will ever have in my entire life. Later on after I tried to break things off she accused me of things. So I had to go to court. Year and a half go by and it comes out every single thing she said was a lie. The whole time I knew her. To this day I'm actually kind of petrified of women.