Relationship too intimate for its own good?

What do you mean by "How he views me has changed (And I know why)". Maybe there is the answer to your question.

I am a Virgo sun / Capricorn moon / Libra rising and my boyfriend of 2 years is a Scorpio sun / Cancer moon / Sagittarius rising. We had a similar intense relationship start, like neither him nor I have experienced before. I felt him changing whenever I did sth that he wouldn't like, whether I had good reasons to or whether it was unintentional. Either way it changed sth within our relationship. But that's the process of getting to know each other, it's inevitable. As long as you're both on the same page and want the same (long term relationship and commitment), you'll find a way. Communication is key. Scorpio are very sensitive creatures. They can sense what and how you feel. My boyfriend always had a simular urge to be there for me when I had problems, even if I didn't asked him to. Which don't get me wrong, is a very good thing! It often made me question though if he's running away from his own responsibilities to solve his own problems, which seemed, like also in your case, were bigger than mine. (often he wouldn't fully let me in either to help, which is very difficult for a virgo aka. the helper, trust me! I don't know much about astrology, but I think since the last full moon in cancer recently things got worse. The other day we had a fight and it began with me wanting (which is unlike me I guess?) to be by myself, solving my problem without letting him be there for me. I know he's not necessarily in a good place right now either emotionally, and I didn't wanted to burden him more. As it turns out he took it as a little offense, almost a break of trust! I don't know your partner, but I can imagine he's similar in that regard. Maybe it's just their way of coping with their own problems, they gain sth for themselves to solve their own, by taking care of us. It's a need. ? (all Scorpios out there, issit true?) Their way of having a connection in difficult times, just being there for you, even though they're at the moment not capable to open up themselves for whatever reason. Over the past few years I found this to be phases. If you guys really love and want each other, you'll find a solution. It'll take time. He'll let you be there for him at some point, when you carry on and show him he can trust you and you guys want the same. I had this as well, feeling like it's one sided. Now imagine him, when you feel like this, maybe he does too. So talk to each other. That your relationship started in a super intense way, and you guys can just sit there in silence doing nothing and it's still amazing, that's a sign you guys have sth special and you can build on this. Don't give up! Sometimes things seem worse than they are, because they don't let you in, and you don't know what's going on, but have trust and faith! The fact your partner is there for you shows that he cares. It's a good thing. Why not accepting what you get and having patience. I know it's hard. But with love and compassion you'll get through this. Respect his feelings, but let him know what you think about it. It takes time. PATIENCE!

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