It's not 12th century misogyny I'm using, it's westerosi misogyny, outside of the dornish I can't see any of the kingdoms being fine with it.

What am I supposed to use? I won't use modern ethics(?) For a fictional medieval setting who at many points have already treated women as less than men.

Look at King Robert no one gives a shit he has bastards, but with Rhaenyra who was a woman and heir to the throne, many of the westerosi already hated her just for being a woman. They would use every method to bring her done hence why I said

"she is a whore, from a different point of view"

Anyways I think this was blown out of proportion (hopefully that's the right idiom) I am not hating on Rhaenyra because she slept with multiple people, I am simply pointing out the obvious, people would call her a whore even just by being alone with a man.