[Serious] Redditors who have uploaded a sextape of their ex onto amateur pornsites, why did you do it? Redditors who are now findable on one of those sites, how do you cope with that?

Interesting timing this question showed up, I literally found a sex tape yesterday.

Let me start by telling you a story of an ex-coworker of mine. We were both temps at a company and started on the same days. During the orientations, of all the other temps she could have befriended, she decided to sit next to me and introduced herself. Immediately I thought to myself how cute this person was and promptly stumbled through my introduction.

We got along well during the brief few months we worked together; she would rest her head on my shoulder occasionally and sneak up from behind to startled me. I began to get a crush on her but alas she did mention her having a boyfriend. It wasn't ideal, but wasn't devastating either, it was just a crush.

Unfortunately after our time at that company expired, we rarely kept in touch. She returned to school and I occupied myself with job hunting and video games. It turns out she is in school for video game development and played the same computer games I did. So we did, played online games together.

Fast forward a few months and we completely stopped communications, however, we are still friends on Facebook. She would occasionally post pictures of her concept art and cosplays, I grew to recgonise them easily.

Which brings me to how I found her tape.

I was browsing an image board, one that I did not frequent or enjoy that much. But fate decided I should pay a visit. I stumbled on a familiar picture, I paid it no mind because I see this picture a lot on Facebook. But this wasn't Facebook; my brain clicked.

"Why is her cosplay picture on 4chan?"

I became curious. The thread was full of people asking for sauce, I felt smug because I knew this girl and no way do these internet strangers know who she is, her Facebook friends list has only 150 people. Lo and behold, a name popped up. But it wasn't her actual name; I googled the name and to my surprise, she used to be one of those camgirls that do live shows for tokens. I searched the deepest parts of the internet to find any archived sessions and luck would gift me one video. A full on hardcore sex show. I'll continue if there's demand for it.

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