3. Should I F(23) try a LDR or let it go?

Should I F(23) try a LDR or let it go?

ho !!! :) I can relate to you so much !! I met the guy I'm currently with in october .. and after 1 month of dating, he admitted he may have to leave for his job (he's military and he knew he'd be posted soon .. in fact he asked to be posted west before we met, while I live east) .. we continued dating casually, thinking : well he is gonna leave anyway ... But, things were so intense and felt so good between us that we decided to try LDR for some time (he left three weeks ago for his course) ..Anyway, he changed his mind and asked to come back here because .. well, we really want to give ourselves a chance !!

So OP .. try ! seriously ! :) And even more so if you find the city he's going interesting ! The guy I dated wanted to leave until he found me here (I can't really leave my city right now), I don't see why you couldn't go there ! And to be perfectly honest, if our plans don't work and if he's posted somewhere else .. I know I'll seriously consider moving with him .. I dated a lot in the past year, and never quite found what I was looking for, never had the heart to jump in a relationship because there was always some red flags .. He doesn,t have any (not for me anyway) ! And I really want to try, and you can always find a job elsewhere ! I'm talking about my feelings, hoping it might resonate with yours ...

You have to ask yourself, what is the most important things for you ?

For me, I didn't think I'd want to just .. leave everything for someone .. ! But then again, I look around me and everyone is starting to build a home .. And I want one too ... I know I can always make some friends somewhere else .. Sure I'd miss my family but, we're not that close .. and honestly : I'm so happy I found him ! He just resonates with me so much .. This feels more important to me .. Just gotta ask yourself what is for you ! :)

If you feel the same way I do, you have to give it a try ! I mean .. you only get one life, and if you feel like this is it, well maybe it is ! You won't know for sure if you don't try and I think you should go for it ! no regrets !

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