After reading another thread in here about Ethan/Harper, I am glad to find and read this one since it is a more grounded in what the realities of marriage can bring. They are both really struggling to fess up to each other about how they feel and about the lack of intimacy in their marriage - which obviously has been going on for a long time for them, before they ever got to the vacay. There is no "evil passive good guy" agenda here. Frankly, I appreciate what is happening between them far more than Cam/Daphne, who clearly have bigger issues between them which is a lot of way are far worse. Glad to see the show present both types shown since they are part of what marriages can and do look like for some couples - regardless of age.