Sounds like you were being too sensitive about having sex too early and him not cuddling you after sex to give you comfort that you made the right choice. You have to keep in mind that everyone is different in the way they do things and it's not ideal to expect them to behave a certain way. Some guys aren't as affectionate at first even if they're into you, but that's ok. Guys get insecure too and they also want reassurance. If you didn't cuddle him after sex, he can think the same thing as you and it becomes a no win situation. If you want someone to be loving and affectionate towards you, you can be the one to initiate it. It makes both parties comfortable. Otherwise, you both could end up overthinking things and you can ruin your chances of having a healthy relationship. If I were you, I'd have a phone conversation with him, apologize for any misunderstanding when you asked to be dropped off at 1am, and generally try to communicate with him in a positive manner. Good communication is one of the more challenging aspects of maintaining good relationships, but if you're very interested in someone, you should try to put in the effort and the other person can be inspired to reciprocate. If it turns out he only wanted sex, at least you now have the closure to quickly move on. You never know unless you take your chances.