Search for The Red Pill. You now have a lot of reading to do. But here are some of the basics-

1) The faster you move forward, the quicker you will recover. Don't beg for her back, don't send her late night drunk texts. This shows you are a needy little bitch and guess what? Women don't like needy guys, contrary to what women tell you or what the media tells you. It sounds to me like with her family problems you started to become her BFF, rather than her future husband. Offer support and leadership, not girlfriend counseling.

2) Anyways, Immediately start improving yourself in every facet of your life. Start lifting weights, try to improve your job situation, pick up a hobby. Stay busy and focus on yourself for a few months. 3) Once you get yourself "back in the game" in maybe 2 to 3 months, start going out and introducing yourself to women.

By doing these basic things your ex will take notice. Oh my god maybe I was wrong to leave him? He seems to be doing so great and she will try to re-enter your life once you have your shit together. Don't fall for it. She left you once she'll leave you again. Women who aren't loyal aren't worth your time. That's called having self respect for yourself.