Exactly!! I called her out on that and she's like well we're both single and we never tried dating someone first. So it should be a thing we try. I don't understand her logic. She just said dudes in the past hit it and quit it and she's afraid I'll do that. So if we're in a relationship then I'm more invested.

I told her exactly what you said. We should have sex and see how compatible we are that way. She said no and we kinda argued a bit but let it go. I was just so sexually attracted to her I said fuck it I'll date first. And we have similar interests. But when she left I kinda got cold hearted. But now she's back but I already put time in with these other girls that I don't want to just bail on.

Sarah Pros: Sarah is hotter than the other girls. Already spent a lot of time with her and have a lot in common. We have mutual friends. She likes me.

Sarah Cons: She's confusing af sometimes Have to date before sex 2 hours away

Other girls pros: Sex before dating Dating is fun I get better at talking to women Build up confidence

Other girls cons: Might get rejected on dates Potential STDs