I think this still exists in the more exclusive side of sugar. Sugar has attracted a lot more people. This includes many more beautiful and smart women than there used to be. In LA there were a few perfect SBs, now there are hundreds. Even an average SD can date a 9+ SB with a masters degree.

So the just pretty girls are having a tough time as there is a lot more competition from higher caliber girls.

Of course a lot more people means also a lot more SDs who suck and don't know how sugar works. So the complaining is up too. There are still good SDs out there.

Like vanilla dating. People tend to date out of their league. Same applies in sugar and people are bitter for it.