This post has ruined the last chance I had at hope. We are not Becky and Amber and this post has drawn so much negativity to my original post I had to take it down and delete my account.

My girlfriend and I watch Amber religiously and have been for years and believe it or not a lot 600 pound people live similar lives. My girlfriend and I first of all are in our mid 30's and we do not live in KY. Our best friends are not our roommates they are our landlords who live on the floor above us which is why I mention she will be alone if I were to leave. My girlfriend makes money online, people pay to watch her eat. This is something many morbidly obese people are forced to do once they reach her size, but it is extremely embarrassing to admit. We make nowhere near the amount of money Amber probably makes.

My girlfriend is a lot like Amber, she has done weight watchers for years mainly because of Amber but that does not mean she is Amber. Of course she is unable to take care of herself she is 600 pounds! The weightloss doctor we say was back in February and she stopped going because she couldn't handle the drive.

Food aggression is something many of my fat friends have, even my friends who are at a normal weight display signs of it.

We are not Amber and Becky, if you had taken the time to send me a private message, like many others have, I could've explained all of this to you. Reducing and labeling us to/as 'haters' is dangerous. Being 600 pounds is not easy, being almost 400 pounds isn't easy either, couple that with being a person of colour and limited income, limited mobility, we have enough to deal with. We live similar lives yes, but it is mainly because of our size.

Please send me a private message if you have any questions. Please talk to me instead of doing this. Im disappointed that I even have to do this. If this was never brought to my attention I wouldn't have known. I am getting death threats for doing absolutely nothing wrong. Today is a sad day.