Tired of feeling shamed by older generations for being cautious..

I've had a few losses and so I wake up every day afraid that I'll see blood when I go to the bathroom. 1st trimester still. I have a calendar counting down the days. I don't plan to announce my pregnancy to anyone until I'm 6 months in. I know that sounds ridiculous but that is how afraid I am of another loss. Also, I want to set a precedent for people to respect my boundaries and to not give me unsolicited advice. I've witnessed pregnant women, postpartum women, and new moms being treated like public property countless times. I know it's inevitable that the same will happen to me, but I'm def not going to feel guilty when I completely ignore these people and/or tell them off.

/r/BabyBumps Thread