Am I the bad apple for not inviting my grandmother to my babysitter

I 24 female and my husband 25 male have 1 child who just made one last week my grandmother 76 female is very religious and didn't approve of my baby from the start saying I should have waited at my gender reveal I was cutting the cake when all of a sudden mu grandmother shouted at me that u should have gotten an abortion I ran off before I even cut the cake and cried myself to sleep that night a month later was my baby shower and while making the invite list I Purposely left her off of it because of the stunt she pulled when it was time for the shower which was held and my mother-in-laws somehow my grandmother found it and barged in and started cussing at me I ask my husband to call the cops which he did but for some reason I feel I went to far I just didn't wanna go home crying again so am I the bad apple