Telling people who need love as an ingredient for sex to hire prostitutes or go on Tinder is about the shittiest thing ever. So way to go. If I could give you a medal for "all time low," I would, Confucius. That advice is a recipe for rape, herpes, or worse. That's like telling someone to go and hurl themselves into shark-infested waters. To be frank, I feel like I'm being given advice by sexually frustrated 16-year-old boy who likes to false humblebrag online. I know for a fact that experience does not add up to shit and that the learning curve is next to flat. Don't believe me? Ask the guy who thought I was lying because I was supposedly "too good to be a real virgin." Ask my friend who spent last Friday being awkwardly jackhammered by the town Casanova. Ask anyone without string of mediocre notches on their belts, but instead who have experienced what it's like to have a first with a real connection there. It doesn't mean shit. People are like puzzles...you either fit or you don't. There is either chemistry there, or there isn't. Very few huge differences in style and vibe can be resolved past the small learning curve.