Literally the definition of feminism is believing women deserve equal rights and opportunities, which I absolutely support.

If you're some anti-man "women are better" activist, you're just a misandrist masquerading as a feminist.

It's unfortunate but expected that the loudest voices are usually the last ones that should be heard, but if you hate these people, why not expose them rather than hate on feminism, something that is pretty reasonable?

Getting women the right to vote was a feminist movement - was that anti man?

And trust me, if you're looking to put a pseudo-feminist in her place, telling her she's a pseudo-feminist hijacking a real cause for her own benefit is far more effective that trying to say feminism is bad, which plays right into her hands.

Do you believe that women should have equal rights and opportunities? Great, you're a feminist.

Do you believe women deserve more opportunities and special treatment? Cool, you're a misandrist/man hater.

Do you believe women deserve less rights and opportunities? Cool, you're a misogynist / woman hater.

Better to be the first.