I’m not really sure how I landed on this subreddit but this was the the first post I saw so I’ll respond.

As a man with a vasectomy, I can tell you that men are always VERY protective of this area because we are taught early on that it is extremely painful and is a symbol on manliness.

So the thought of having someone open our ball sack with a knife and get to work on us is absolutely terrifying.

We are also afraid that it will change how sex feels and since sex is EXTREMELY important to (most) of us then we don’t want to ruin it.

Having said that, what guys really need to know is that it doesn’t hurt AT ALL. I was not in the least bit of pain. Yes, he will walk tenderly as a way of protecting himself from inflicting pain and it something hits it then it will hurt for a moment.

The benefit is massive! Imagine being able to have endless sex without even having to think about getting your girl pregnant. The cumming feels the same. It is the same consistency and thinkness (this is important because we want that shit to burst out).

There is an added short term benefit in having doctors orders to drain the pipes for about 20+ cums because of lingering sperm in the pipes and the girl has a role in that.

You are told to wait 2 weeks before actual intercourse and ejaculation but most doctors will tell you that if you feel up to it just go gentle. My wife started cleaning me out 2 days after.

From a girls perspective a V is way less evasive and much safer than a girl getting her tubes tied and it leaves the woman’s sex drive intact. That is true benefit to the guy. The Vasectomy does nothing negative to the guys drive and not having surgery will keep the girl wanting it too. A lot of times the girls libido will diminish after surgery because of hormonal changes.

In summary, guys love to cum and are protective of our ability to. It is a subconscious and physical need to cum and this seems to threaten that but it absolutely does not. He will actually feel a sense of freedom after it is done. Hope this helps.