When was I ever negative please inform me because I don't believe I have been at all, I am a male and this thread is about attractive males being approached by women, and I for one as well am a attractive male, not to toot my horn. My personal truths, you frankly have no Idea on what they are because you are a female. You are now presuming and just being now a downright a feminist by self proclaiming and arguing some women experience more judgemental assumptions, which in reality is just equality. Again. Equality. When will you feminist back the Fuck up and just accept that? Will you ever fucking learn just to shut your mouths when necessary. Men have. Women have to. But you my dear I'm afraid still need to learn. So what you need to do is unlearn what you have learnt to learn what is to be learnt to build that little bridge in your head and get the Fuck over it. I am not being an asshole, I am being a realist. Next time you start hearing your self starting to argue, even in the slightest with someone you know. Anyone you know. Either walk away. Mediate yourself. Relax. Take a few breaths and come back into the social environment in which you came to be the better self that you know you can be.