this feels weird typing out because it's more of an in the moment thing.

edit: it feels so silly typing this but it's the general idea.

you have so many tools to use, not just your dick. you can use your hands to feel their body, your words to tell them how good they look and how badly to want them. use your lips to kiss them on the lips, neck, shoulders, etc. make them hornier, as clothes come off, touch them, feel them.

make your words dirtier as you use your fingers in them. tell them how good it feels, how wet they are, how you've wanted them. tell them what you're going to do to them, how badly you want it. and make sure you do. ex: I always want to taste their cum, so I'll tell them how badly I've craving it ang I'm going to make them cum. then when i go down on them, I make sure to make they do cum. it's that confidence of knowing what I want and getting it.

as a general rule, I make sure their needs are taken care of first. when their needs are met and they know I'm a guy that makes sure they are, they just want my dick even more. I make them feel good and comfortable, make them cum, make them even hornier, and they just need my dick. I've had women beg for it. they want to give that same energy I give to them. they want to make sure I feel good, the way I made them feel good.