Would it be accurate to say that liberal feminism promotes women “living like (stereotypical) men” while radical feminism is saying that’s simply backwards as “living like men” isn’t the standard in the first place?

Idk, it's complicated in a way that I can't help but dumbly ramble on about it. <_<
From what I gather, a minority of women who engage in casual sex genuinely desire it whether or not they had any pressure from others over it, a minority actually are satisfied with it, a minority appear to find a guy that doesn't seem to treat them like a piece of furniture or another mark on the bed post--I base that off of common sense. After seeing what men all over the place (irl and online on various places not just deep-web ones) as well as what women say about hook-ups, I can firmly say that a lot of or even most men see casual lays like objects they basically wouldn't care if she died the next day, or at least give 0 fucks about her well-being...which I'm sorry but I think a lot of women wouldn't want to hook-up with a guy if she knew what he was saying about her behind closed doors. Moreover, that most the women involved don't seem to actually get much sexual satisfaction and disportionately seem to do it for reasons other than the mechanical action alone? IDK.

I've never had casual sex and tmi, as somehow whose longtime bf>! is amazing at sex/foreplay and I always climax from intercourse and who is unapologetically physically affectionate outside of the bedroom!<, I find it very weird that women get less and then act like a need is being fulfilled. Because, well, I could easily just get a sex toy and fantasize, and it'd take 0 work or really, fretting, and I'd enjoy it more than casual sex with 99.99% of men...which I honestly would imagine is a ton of work? You might be that rare woman I mentioned that might be able to get something out of casual sex. But even if you were, I guess my take would be, "I mean...is it worth it?" It isn't "you'd harm women!" or "free prostitute alert!"

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