Glad you're happily single. Honestly, sex matters. If it's there, it may not feel like the most important part. When it's gone? You feel it. We're meant to mate and reproduce. If you're not mating with a life partner, your psyche knows something is deeply wrong.

What do you think of people who cheat on emotionally abusive or unavailable partners? Truth be told, I had never cheated before, but have gotten in the unfortunate habit of getting happy ending massages when my wife is treating me badly. She'll threaten divorce, tell me I'm worthless, etc. Apologizes later, but yeah. I'm curious as to your thoughts.

I am trying stop, if that helps.