You have different goals. And he’s either not ready to get married or truly doesn’t want to marry you. When a guy tries to nail down his dream girl, he won’t wait five years. And do you really want to wait five years for this guy? There are NO guarantees. Do you realize there are guys out there that already have a house/career etc..and would marry you and you wouldn’t even have to stress it like what he’s doing to you? Something to consider..

As a side note I’m sure this is hard to hear but I wish when I was engaged to a guy that ultimately wasn’t ready to marry me in my twenties someone would’ve sat me down and told me these things.