Also my trust fund is pretty huge. Like if I moved to a less expensive city (we live in Vancouver- the most expensive city in Canada) I never have to work again and I’m not even 30. Its also about to get bigger sadly (when my mom passes) and I’m also finally able to sell inherited prime oceanside property abroad. He doesn’t know the size of my trust fund only that I come from a fairly affluent background.

I don’t see any sense in him wanting to pay as he isn’t the “macho” type and we have a joint account which we equally contribute to (all our other accounts are separate). Though he came from a low-income family it’s not about the money but if we have kids he wants to be a stay at home dad and I want to work.