When she was opening up to him and explaining why she doesn't cry in public; the true vulnerability she was offering was in letting him in on this information that is sensitive and tender to her about her shitty past relationship. This completely went over his head. He was just like, "Nah girl, you can cry in public; don't be scared to be a human, girl." Which is ironic because he certainly doesn't understand the neuance of being a human WITH another human. He was completely missing the heart of what Katina was sharing, which was her story. And that's this whole mess in a nutshell, basically. He's hella out of touch, and he doesn't get it. Like at all.