My fiance is American and you know what? I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU. I am 34 years old, and he's 40. I am financially stable and i never intentionally looked for a foreigner boyfriend para makaraos sa hirap. We see each other as equal. So it pissed me off so bad when I first posted pictures of us together. Mga comment is "Wow! Congratulations!" "Wow AFAM girl!, go go go!" Ang meron pang "Hanapan mo din si Madel oh!(anak niya)" i felt so embarrassed I deleted all those comments, even then some would suddenly slide on my DMs or PM me para lang magusisa. I feel so offended on behalf of my fiance. Yung bang para siyang object and hindi siya human sa paningin ng mga tao, and worse those are people close to me. I love that guy with all my heart not because of anything other than his personality and he doesn't play, just like me. We both want to settle

I hope people would stop seeing this kind of relationship as a huge phenomenon.