AITA for calling my boyfriend's little sister racist because she likes kpop?

It is true and clear. You dont need to live abroad for long until you realise that what we imagine to be awful racism in the west is just standard practice over the world.

You don't get angry about it. You be nice to people, make a good representation of yourself and your culture, and you build bridges. You meet ignorance every day. Then you engage with people and slowly help them understand.

You don't call them a racist, burn bridges, and create and fuel huge divides. There are already nationalistic and genuinely racist people doing that and we dont need to help them.

You build bridges. You form better understandings. If you don't, you are an asshole.

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