AITA for waking out of my daughter’s birthday party because the cake had her deadname on it?

No I’m not saying that. But I’m saying it takes longer for people to try and adjust especially knowing them for a long time. Sometimes it slips out. It’s human nature. If he said they didn’t try and apologize or contact them that’s that’s understandable I get that. But she did and asked if she was okay and whatnot. I would say the dad should’ve also prepped and help make everything perfect ya know. Should’ve told the sister to get the name right make sure nobody disrespects her. Again I’m not saying that what happened wasn’t disrespectful but I’m saying it was an over reaction and could’ve been handled much differently. You can’t expect everyone to adjust the same it takes longer especially for others

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