It isn’t “good” that a woman takes time to make a decision?

How has her partner been affected by her taking 3 weeks to make a serious life choice?

He hasn’t been forced into marriage

He hasn’t been forced into parenthood (yet)

He hasn’t had to deal with any of the emotions

He hasn’t been affected at all by a 3 week delay.

Nor would he been affected if she took another week.

She on the other hand has a HUGE decision (blow up her life and dreams for her pregnancy or terminate a pregnancy).

And deserves some time to be able to consider it.

Basically you are advocating for his right to be able to pressure her into an abortion.

Because that’s the only thing that knowing 3 weeks ago would change, his ability to repeat that he does not want children.

As she is aware of his stance, that additional pressure is unnecessary.

Of course she needs to tell him, the moment she decides, and allow him to make choices for himself based on what she needs to decide.

But, as of this point (assuming he still didn’t know, which he does so it’s moot) his life has not been detrimentally affected and won’t be until the decision to terminate or not is made.