i did but i was saying maybe she doesn’t or isnt comfortable with ANY anal play whether it is you or her. I mean technically you could do it to yourself without her knowing and get your thrill with it. What you do alone is your business Why does she have to know everything? My partner doesn’t know all my toys Some things are private and personal Just like people masturbate alone. i was saying maybe after a while she might get more comfortable with it maybe not. right now it is her boundary. I mean i have done kinky In my day but butt stuff is a no go. Only out nothing goes in so that is what i was trying to say. That is my boundary! excuse me for commenting just trying to answer you for a different angle but won’t do it again. you only want people to agree with you. so bye