My girlfriend had a miscarriage some day ago.She was bleeding for 20 days.I am 28 she is 26. We both are not ready for a baby we always had protected sex..but still it happened.We are in long distance..so she went to the doctor alone..There was big left tissue in her uterus..Doctor gave her some pills..she had a severe pain for 2 days after that she passed everything.I am very stable in my career..she is still struggling so all these times she did everything alone..we live in a country where pre marital sex is taboo.. so everything was so hard for her. After this incidence she said this thing is affecting me emotionally i went through a lot during this time.. i need your emotional support i need a shoulder to cry on.. i feel so weak like my world is falling apart.. her health is not good right now she lost a lot of blood.But i don't know how to react in emotional situations so i said don't talk about these things.. she said she is suffocating.. i keep on changing that topic..i thought it was good that it was over.what is the need of talking about it. I was not emotional at all..i don't understand why she was emotional..it was not even a baby.. she never wanted this..than why all these emotions..so i gave her silence when she was crying on phone..i thought that was the right decision because she was not talking in rational way. I feel guilty that i was not there for her when she went through this..but i can't do anything now..yelling at mt won't help..now i think she should forget everything and concentrate on her career.After that she said she doesn't want to talk to me.. but i didn't call her back..i can't handle emotions..after that i said sorry by a message but she said..you are a selfish person..you will never understand what i went though..i wanted you to hear me..is that too much to ask for..i said i am sorry but we can't do anything about it now.. now we should all move on in life..stop thinking about these things...its been 7 days her phone is switched off..i don't beleive she is that immature..i am so angry..why she is playing mind games.