In case you were curious, and not just looking to vent...

limiting the freedom that women have

Interesting, what about my freedom to carry a gun to class, smoke weed in the library, play with chalk.... Clearly limiting freedoms is the wrong choice of words, so let's skip past that one

you don't understand what life is.

This is super interesting, I would venture you don't either. Quite honestly every example you gave is completely subjective.... But we already know it's ethical in some cases to take lives, ex self defense... Let's keep going

without any consideration about how they actually felt.

True the harsh names and hate is not helpful but it is just noise, it really doesn't make their beliefs invalid... The other side participates as well...