Are ENTPs really the best match for us INFJs?

I think, any types of people who are both mentally healthy and mature have a potential, if not, then doesn’t matter whether they are the golden pairing or not, it won’t be good.

An unhealthy ENTP can be careless and narcissistic and may end up badly mistreating the empathetic and people-pleasing INFJ. An unhealthy INFJ can become way too self-absorbed and detached, which can lead to coldness and manipulative behaviour.

Having said that, a healthy ENTP is a wonderful and natural partner for an INFJ. Many things simply work because of the way their brains operate. A healthy ENTP with a developed Fe and a healthy INFJ with a developed Ti create wonderful conversations together that never end. It’s definitely one of those “complete each other” situations. But not thinking of either one of them being incomplete but saying that both can strengthen their weaker sides by learning from their partner. There’s a strong connection built on authenticity and deep understanding. Both types are very intense, but they can handle each other in the most effortless way.

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