I think this is disgusting, you say you "tried" to be polite as possible but here you are screen shottinf her post and shaming her for validation from Reddit????

I don't care if it's "cheap" of her to offer so little money, she's having a hard time. Asking someone to have experience (so they can handle the children) alcohol free/drug free is completely obvious, those things shouldn't be around kids and she has pets so obviously she's warning them.

Aren't you just a completely nice and polite person for saying you hope she can find someone to help her during a hard time in her life but sit her two faced looking down at her and shaming her. So disgusting.